So there you go. My top 3 picks for the best masturbators for men of 2024. But still… how can you choose which is best for you? When choosing, there are a few key areas that you really need to pay attention to. They are:

What’s it made of?

This is especially important if you have any skin sensitivities. If you’re concerned about that, then be sure to get a toy that’s made from high quality TPE. But aside from skin sensitivities, you’re going to want to ensure that you’re buying a realistic-feeling, high quality material that isn’t going to break down after just a month of use. Buy only from reputable dealers and always look at reviews too.

Is it easy to clean?

Being able to easily clean your male masturbator is incredibly important – otherwise the thought of having to spend a bunch of time cleaning after your orgasm is going to make you simply not want to bother bringing it out in the first place! So make sure that it’s easy to clean. Look for toys that can be cleaned simply with soap and water, and when possible find sleeves that you can invert to make cleaning the inside that much easier.

How much does it cost?

This one directly depends on how much you’re willing (or able) to spend on your male masturbator. They range anywhere from 20 bucks to over 800 (and more if you start getting into some of thecrazy automated machines). So it’s important to not just think about how much you’re willing to spend, but to then research your options in that price range and make sure you’re getting the best bang for your buck – literally. There are a ton of male masturbators out there priced at 10 bucks… but most of them suck. Again, not all – but most! So make sure you do your research, read reviews, and really try to get a feel for what’s out there and what would best suit your needs before throwing your hard-earned cash at it.

How does it feel?

Obviously, this is the most important. If it feels like crap, it’s not even really worth 10 bucks is it? So again, if you’re new to using male masturbators, you’re going to have to rely a lot on reviews – which doesn’t always make you feel super secure, especially if you’re about to spend $100 or more, right? So check out multiple sites, see what the people have to say, and then try to think what you would or wouldn’t like about the different sensations that people talk about in the reviews. One guy might complain that the toy feels too snug, and that might be just what you’re looking for.

That being said, there are obviously the major players in the game such as the Autoblow A.I.+ and the Kiiroo Onyx+ among many others – and they’re obviously not just selling out because they look cool – they feel good! So if you’re willing to fork out the dough, you can be pretty sure that you’re going to get a good orgasm coming your way if you stick with the big players.

Will it last?

This one actually kind of ties into what the toy is made of. Like the Lifetime Silicone Stroker for example is going to last you a very long time! In fact, it will likely live longer than YOU. Other toys that have that realistic skin feel even more life-like than silicone, but they’re going to have to be replaced eventually. Most of these masturbators for men come with replaceable sleeves, so if you have to buy a new one every year or two, it’s not a big deal – not like you’re replacing the entire device. But again, you need to be comfortable with it however you choose to go.

So. That pretty much sums it up. I hope my reviews and advice have made your search a little bit easier. Happy searching my friends. I wish you a happily ever after with whichever male masturbator you choose.

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Where can I discreetly buy male masturbation toys?

The internet is a beautiful thing, isn’t it? Long gone are the days where we had to walk into a store and talk to a real live salesperson about what sex toys we were looking for – red faced and talking way too fast from embarrassment. And of course, you’d never really say exactly what you wanted, because with this stranger staring at you, how do you really divulge your inner most sexual fantasies?

Then bam – the internet. Online we can explore every type of male masturbator out there- compare them, see them in action, learn real reviews. And so of course it only makes sense to buy them online too, right? Some of the most reputable sites are getfleshy.com, autoblow.com, and lelo.com.

All of these sites have, in my experience, excellent customer service, great return policies, high quality sex toys, and of course something so important – discreet packaging when they ship. They are very thorough in ensuring nobody can tell what’s inside the package.

What are penis masturbators made of?

Each male masturbation toy manufacturer has their own special compound that they use to create their sex toys. But that being said – they’re all a bit similar. Most of the toys are made out of an artificial material that does its best to mimic the feeling of real skin. Most often referred to as artificial skin, SuperSkin, or anything in between.

This material is incredibly soft and when mixed with a bit of lubrication it can really give the user the idea of being with a real woman. It’s pretty incredible how far they’ve come with these materials for the old plastic and rubber toys that originally flooded the market decades ago.

Other male masturbators are made of less realistic material, either because they’re going for a different effect, or because they want to cut out costs. If you’re looking for something that’s going to feel as realistic as possible, look for these high quality realistic materials.

How long do male masturbators last?

This depends on a few different factors. First of all, what kind of quality did you buy? It’s true, especially in the world of male masturbation toys, that you get what you pay for. If you’ve purchased a masturbation toy that was like 20 bucks – chances are it’s not going to last that long. On the other hand, machines like the Fleshy Pro™ or the Autoblow A.I.+ are made with industrial-strength motors and can last upwards of 500 hours of playtime.

But, and this is a big but, it also depends largely on how well you take care of it. In order to create a realistic effect, the material of the sleeve skins is super smooth, and needs to be cared for properly. If you neglect your toy, or are overly rough with it, you could decrease the lifespan of your machine. On the other hand, by cleaning it and storing it properly after each use, you can prolong the life of the toy. Check the manual of any new toy for the proper care instructions. And with proper care, you can expect to have most quality toys for several years at least (unless of course, you’re using it several times a day and then you’re going to wear it out much faster)

Can I use a masturbation sleeve with my roommate?

This depends 100% on the relationship you have with your roommate, and is not something I can answer for you. If this is something that you’re considering, I would suggest talking to your roommate in depth about what each of your expects.

This also goes back to an earlier question regarding STDs. If you are ever planning on sharing your male masturbators with another person, it doesn’t matter whether they’re your roommate, partner, friend, etc., it’s important to know that they have been tested for STDs and STIs. Even when someone says “I know I’m fine. I always use a condom” condoms aren’t perfect, and so it’s important to get tested always.

You CAN clean the machines of course, but it’s still important to understand their sexual health so that you are limiting your risks.

If you are ever unsure about anything regarding these matters, speak to a doctor for more information.

How can I introduce male masturbators in a relationship?

Obviously, some people are more receptive to bringing toys into the bedroom than others. If you’re in a relationship, do your best to gauge how you think your partner would feel, and be conscious of their feelings when you approach the subject. Be prepared with the reasons why you think that this would benefit BOTH of you. Is it that one of you needs assistance finishing? Is just something that you want to try to have a bit of fun? What are you intentions behind it?

Also make sure that you’re introducing a toy that’s going to be fun for the both of you. Introducing or suggesting a fully-automated masturbator might not be as fun for your partner as a manual one that they could help you use. If you really do want to use an automated one, then make sure they’re getting something at the same time. Whether you’re going down on them while the machine goes down on you, or perhaps you bring in another toy for your partner, just ensure that the introduction of this toy doesn’t create a one-sided sex session that your partner will begin to resent you for.

Where should I store my sex toy?

Store your male masturbator anywhere that you feel comfortable doing so – as long it’s a dry space, and away from direct sunlight. If your blowjob device comes with its own case (many of them do) then that’s going to be your best bet. Then you can just put the entire thing away at the top of your closet, under your bed, or under your bedside table.

For the toys that don’t come with their own storage case, I devote my old shoeboxes to them. I keep just one toy in each box though, so that their skins don’t sit touching each other – this can wear away the material over time. And I line the boxes with an old tshirt or rag, just to keep it not only soft inside, but nice and dry. I actually store most of those ones at the top of my hall closet – right in plain sight really – but nobody thinks anything of it. Shoeboxes at the top of a hall closet seem incredibly ordinary, and so I never have to worry about prying eyes.

Are there any masturbators for men that plug into the wall outlet?

There’s nothing worse than getting so close to orgasm and then your machine just stops – am I right? It’s seriously obnoxious. Even if you’ve got one of those ones with the internal rechargeable battery – you can’t always be 100% sure that you’re not going to run out of juice. And when you notice that the speed is lagging you start rushing your session just to finish before it inevitably dies out on you. Not fun.

The Fleshy Pro™ has a rechargeable battery but it lasts 4+ hours on a single charge, so you don't need to worry about it dying so long as you remember to charge it on occassion.

The Autoblow A.I.+ plugs directly into the wall while you use it. The cord is plenty long enough so you don’t have to worry about getting stuck masturbating like, pressed up against the wall at the end of your room. Ha! Instead you can get comfortable pretty much anywhere – I’ve never had an issue with that. And then of course, you’re free to play as long as you wish. There’s truly something freeing about knowing that no matter what, you can have a masturbation session right then and there if you so choose – you don’t have to worry about forgetting to charge it, or worse – having to buy batteries!

What should I avoid when buying male masturbators?

In the world of sex toys, it’s true what they say – you get what you pay for! If you find a “male sex toy” for 20 bucks, I can tell you right now that it’s going to suck. And I don’t mean that in the good way. It’s going to be terrible. To create a toy that feels great and that will last any length of time, the materials to create it are going to cost way more than 20 bucks – so there’s no way you’re going to be able to purchase it for that! So – avoid anything that’s dirt cheap. The only exception to this is the Fleshy products. I have no idea why they're so cheap. The price will definitely go up soon.

It’s also a good idea to avoid anything that’s made out of rubber or plastic. These are old-school materials that people used to make sex toys decades ago. We’ve come a long way since then, so don’t even bother with them. Rubber and many types of plastic are porous and so they can keep and breed bacteria – not good. The newer materials not only feel much nicer, but they’re far more hygienic too.

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